Cunnilingus 101: (She'll want to thank you!)
Nothing makes a woman hot like a man who knows what he is doing when it comes to oral sex, which makes cunnilingus worth a little study. A thankful woman is also usually a lot more inspired to give good head.
Rather than diving right in, most women respond best to teasing: tease her inner thighs by kissing or licking gently with your tongue. Make her wonder for a moment just how far you are going to go. The gentle expectation and building up of her desire for more is a great opener. Once you sense she is at the edge and wanting you to take her the rest of the way, here are some oral sex techniques:
The Circle and Suck
Leave your jaw relaxed and try licking her pussy starting from her vaginal entrance by licking around it in a very slight teasing motion for a few seconds with the tip of your tongue and when you reach the top let your tongue slide up to her clit and gently suck on it for a moment then repeat.
The Labial Hold and Blow
Use your hands on her outer labia to gently pull them apart and expose her clit. Make a few sweeping licking motions over her exposed clit and then softly blow cool air over it and immediately go back to licking it.
The Clitoris Suck
A true winner. Expose her clit by spreading her vaginal lips gently apart and give it a quick little suck — a lot like you would if you were licking cake batter off of your pinky. Don't use any heavy suction and don't tease her this way for too long. Its a powerful little technique that can bring her close to the edge.
The Orgasm Flicker
This technique is best used after you have played around a bit with the others and are ready to seal the deal. Gently or firmly (depending on her preference) rapid-fire flick the tip of your tongue right over her clit again and again and again until she explodes.
The Tongue Tube
If you can roll your tongue into a tube you've gotta try this one. (This is genetically determined so if you can't don't worry-just skip it.) If you can, then simply roll your tongue into a tube around her clit and then slide it back and forth. To understand the effect this can have on her, realize that this can feel a lot like a woman's vagina around a man' s cock. This is a great technique best suited for an inverted or 69 position and it can send her over the top!
Tongue Intercourse
While nothing compares to stimulating the clit on most women in terms of response, the nerve endings in a woman's vagina are concentrated around the opening and within the first couple of inches inside — close enough to be reached by your tongue if you thrust it into her vaginal opening. Some women like this and some don't, so it doesn't hurt to ask. Of course you can always use the tip of your finger on her clit while inserting your tongue inside her to make it even more pleasurable.
Break
Don't forget to break to stroke and kiss her thighs and experiment with some finger fucking while eating her out as well as a little finger-ass play if she is open to it (but remember to use different hands for sanitary purposes!) Anal toys for women, like anal climax beads that you can gently pull out while she cums or small anal plugs that can be left in during oral sex are worth experimenting with to enhance the experience if she's willing to try it. Something small and super pliable that vibrates like the Ultra Probe Pinpoint Teaser or the super soft Tush Teaser are usually best to start) Most women love anal play as the anus is a major errogenous zone even if they haven't explored it yet. When doing so, remember to always use LOTS of LUBE.
Flavored Gels
Flavored oral sex gels are a great way to enhance cunnilingus too. The way a person lives, if they smoke, what they eat etc. can all affect the way they taste. (The saying vegetarians taste better is probably more than a myth.) If you want to add some extra flavor to the job make sure they are water or silicone-based flavored lubes if you plan on using a condom later. Whatever you use, don't use anything oil based because condoms and oil don't mix!
Some popular flavored water based lubes are:
- Climax Fruit Bomb, which comes in cherry cola, strawberry, orange, coco pineapple, raspberry and kiwi lime.
- Sex Tarts Lubes, which comes in green apple, cherry pop, strawberry, tangerine, grape soda, and watermelon.
- Slippery Kitty Lube, which comes in strawberry lust and au naturel.
- iVibe makes a flavored silicone lube that comes in stawberry, grape, lime and blueberry flavors along with a free mini massager.
Having a mint in your mouth as long as it is not too weak or too powerful can add a very interesting tingling sensation to enhance her pleasure and yours.
Positioning
 Just like with penetration, positioning can help. Use a regular pillow to position her legs and pussy so they are the right angle for maximum comfort for you while you lick her and for maximum exposure to her clit. Placing a pillow right under her hips can work well. You can also try using one of the Liberator sex pillows. More information is available in our section on Oral Sex Positions.
Vibrators
Still not a fan of going down on her? Check out buying her a vibrator with tongue action like the Tongue II, a powerful soft fleshlike vibrating tongue-shaped vibrator, the Clit Kisser, a sex toy with a soft vibrating mouth and sensual tongue that gently flitters and licks, or a combo vibrator like the Deluxe Rabbit Pearl Vibrator.
You can use these toys to prime her up, but don't use them for too long because they can really make a woman cum fast. The combo type vibrators like the Next Generation Rabbit Pearl are made for insertion with a clit stimulator ON the shaft. Its hard to be everywhere at once so the use of a combo vibrator can free you up to suck on her nipples while you can watch her squirm from being fucked by a vibrator that has clit action, too.
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