Tips for a Better Blow Job
- Experiment with using flavored lubes
Experiment with using flavored lubes on the shaft of your cock to sweeten the deal, making it moist and warm while your partners mouth alternates between full insertion and licking the head of your cock. During fellatio, AKA a blow job, most partners can't sustain repeatedly deep strokes for too long with just their mouths without getting a sore jaw. (How many blow jobs have ended to early because of this!) If you're going to use a condom later, be sure the flavored lube is water-based or silicone-based.
- Try a cock ring
Try a cock ring if you want to maintain the erection longer while she sucks you off. You can also try one that vibrates, sending vibrating sensations up the shaft of your cock and to your balls while she gives you your blow job. With some cock rings she may want you to keep using it during penetration because some of them have an automatic clit stimulator build in for her.
- Check out a desensitizing lube
Check out a desensitizing lube if you don't want to shoot your load to fast.
- Try some bondage fantasy
Try some bondage fantasy while she is giving you head. One example of light bondage play is for her to be blindfolded and fed whip cream or chocolate alternating with giving her the head of your cock to suck on.
- Slip a mint in her mouth
Slip a mint in her mouth—not too soft and not too strong—to add a cool tingling sensation to your blow job.
- Try different blow job positions
Try different blow job positions like the Throat Swab described under BJ Sexual Positions. Nothing may help you convince her to give a good blow job more than a position that allows you to finger her clit while she sucks you.
- Use flavored condoms
Use flavored condoms if you want to play it safe and be sure to fill the condom up with lube on the INSIDE before she starts sucking you to make for a wetter feel.
- Watch an all oral sex porn video together
Watch an all oral sex porn video together for inspiration: Straight Oral Sex - DVD.
- Have her stimulate your prostate with a sex toy
Have her stimulate your prostate with a sex toy. There are sex toys designed to specifically stimulate the prostate. It is a super-erogenous orgasm enhancing experience if you’re willing to try it.
- If you want her to swallow but she complains about the taste
If you want her to swallow but she complains about the taste, check out these tips:
make your cum taste better through diet, experiment with eating pineapples and avoiding super-pungent foods like fish and cabbage, brussel sprouts and onions for a few days. You can also have her keep a mint in her mouth, a piece of cinnamon gum if you don’t mind a “hot” blow job, or keep a sweet drink by the bed for her to drink down right after she swallows. Also, let her know that deep throating your cock right before you’re about to cum will have the cum hit the back of her throat, bypassing her tongue for the most part.
- Try having her wear a strap-on clit vibrator
Try having her wear a strap-on clit vibrator or a combo of clit and nipple vibrators while she's sucking you off (as we mentioned under Sex Toys for Her). The extra stimulation can make her even more enthusiastic about having your cock in the mouth.
- Try out nipple suckers
Try out nipple suckers on yourself while she sucks you off.
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