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Blow Job Techniques Getting the best blow job can be a combination of what your partner already knows how to do and what you can teach them about what you like. How to give a blow job is no mystery but here are some techniques worth experimenting with and making sure your partner is aware of so that they can know how to give a great blow job. First be sure to let your partner know the #1 rule for blow jobs—keep teeth away from the penis with the occassional exception of very very lightly rubbing them over the shaft while sucking. The #2 thing to help them remember is that their mouth and tongue bring you pleasure in more areas than just around the head. Having them experiment with techniques such as lapping their tongue over the area right behind your balls (the perineium) and spreading their tongue wide so as to lap up the shaft of your cock while moving it in and out of their mouth can go a long way toward getting the best blow job. For technique #3, having them wrap two fingers gently around the base of your cock and positioned right beside their lips as they move up and down the shaft can also be part of their learning how to give a great blow job because it can add extra stimulation to the areas of the shaft that are not currently being sucked. Technique #4 includes experimenting with having your partner wrap their fingers around the base and using lubes on the shaft—making it moist and warm while your partner's mouth alternates between full insertion and licking the head of your cock. Most partners can't sustain repeatedly deep strokes over the penis for long periods of time with just their mouths without getting a sore jaw. (How many blow jobs have ended to early because of this!) So if you still want deep stroking action to occur this is the way to go. For techniques #5 and #6—if you like a deep throat blow job, here are some tips for your partner to remember. One, tell her to take a deep breath before taking your cock in her mouth. This may help to relax the throat muscles and help prevent triggering the gag reflex. Also try a postition where the angle of the throat and the angle of the penis are somewhat aligned can aid in getting a good deep throat blow job. (See the section on Oral Sex Positions). Note: If you shoot your load pretty fast with a blow job and want to delay or orgasm, remind your partner to alternate between full on sucking and then tickling the frenulum with their tongue. You might also try delaying orgasm and making it more explosive by experimenting with the use of a cock ring, which serves to restrict blood flow when the penis is erect. There are all kinds of variations out now on what started out as a simple sex toy for men and they can all enhance your blow job. They include advancements like the Wireless Adonis Pouch, which includes a vibrating pouch for your balls, and some like the Ecstasy Rope Ring, made of a soft jelly material that vibrates. It also comes with a bendable anal teaser for heightened sexual stimulation. Then there are the super-advanced cock rings like Tera Patrick's Triple Action Pleasurizer, a cock ring that comes with a remote control and two vibrating bullets so you can even wear it and use its vibrating action to stimulate your partners clit later during sex. You could also try a flavored desensitizing crème like Kama Sutra Pleasure Balm. It comes with Spearmint, Raspberry and Tangerines flavored creams that desensitize your cock and help you hold out longer while she sucks you. You can also buy her a book such as Sadie Allison's Tickle His Pickle. Over 50 techniques on how to master oral sex and give the best blow job. |
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